I find it impossible to forgive without hording buts in the process--the human conditions we both face as a consequence. They are not mere "buts" because from there we can learn something: understand the situation wisely but we have to grow; resilience but we have to move on and leave the past behind, acceptance because no one is perfect but not tolerating wrong deeds, and more. We forgive at the same time we leave marks of buts because trust is earned, carefulness matters, and second chances must be valued with sincerity.
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