Neither elegant attires nor
spoken languages could ever define one’s love of a country. No, it doesn’t stop
here because it takes a selfless sacrifice to prove that–not necessarily embracing
noble deeds. One could speak a million tongues but it doesn’t make that person
a hero. One could be devoted to wearing traditional costumes but it doesn’t make
that person lionhearted. There is more to these outside manifestations that
meets the eye–it is the goodness that counts. For even a lowly civil servant or
an altruistic educator can do change the world. It is a tried and true reality
believed for countless times, for a thousand years.
LIBOD-LIBOD
Journey In Prose
Tuesday, August 14, 2018
Shopgony
This is how I would define the
word shopping–someone’s joy but somebody’s agony. While other find pleasure
buying this and that, walking from here to there just to gratify themselves
from collecting stuff not free, I agonize and detest this kind of activity. I
don’t know, but I am not just a fan of this necessary errand. P-E-T-P-E-E-V-E to
cut to the chase or the way I would spell it. It took me the whole SM to find
the pants I needed for my interview on Monday. Not to mention the hard times
looking for an exact size and a cut that would fit me. Laugh out loud, but only
stores in Cambodia sell my size. Oh, let me invent another crazy thought to describe
the word in particular–it is shopgony (from
two combined lexicon: shop and agony).
Worth the Live and Learn
Although it’s not every experience
worth the live and learn, but there us such kind that deserves an encore or an
endless applause–perhaps to learn a thing or two. Capture that moment and
treasure it like there is no tomorrow. Learn from every rare opportunity because
they come for a reason–they come once in a million–to teach us, inspire us, and
break us necessarily for the better. Jot them down in our hearts, not just by
memory but by action until we get familiar with it. Some people call it a day-to-day
experience or a journey if you prefer. Life in reality has a lot of these to
give, but you just have to listen attentively to what men and women of the
world have to demonstrate both in spoken words and in deeds–they are those who
have been there, done that. Some of us had to learn it at an early age while
the rest are the opposite, but it doesn’t matter for we learn in season and
out. We learn in every ticking of the clock. After all, it is never too late to
learn. I was told.
A Rare Afternoon
As far as we know, even before
creativity was at its zenith, sitting at the feet of scholars or experts in any
fields do not evolve in a seemingly suffocating four-walled classrooms alone.
Both educators and learners themselves have gone against the tide in the name
of education–in aggression–whether or not it was a life-long learning. A casual
discussion over lunch and a simple coffee talk are only a few of these examples
or, better yet, defiance. I had to go to UP Diliman to meet a professor, a God-fearing
man and a genius. For one reason, I thought, to wrap up the upcoming excursion
and cultural exposure of the selected youth from Cambodia in October this year
here in the Philippines. But it turned out a rare afternoon instead–in a
positive and an unexpected way. Before I realized it, I found myself sitting at
the feet of a filmmaker, a movie director, a novelist, a musical scorer and a theater
enthusiast. Al I had to do was listened attentively and tried to be receptive
enough. There were ahs and ohs–when eureka and jaw dropping moments were like unending.
Many times they spoke in the language of an alien while I prayed my hardest not
to lose my sanity, and prayed for God’s grace to get even a bit of a grasp about
what they were trying to deliver. Things they had learned for years and years,
they laid down before me in just four hours. That unusual encounter was a gift without
a doubt from heaven above.
Tuesday, July 31, 2018
Weddings in July
Grateful
honored, and blessed to see it with my own eyes as couples exchanged their solemn
vows in holy moments–in celebration of love. It was another milestone conceived
through courtship and commitment to love for life–for better or for worse. Three
happy days in July, when a month was both graced with elegance and simplicity,
with colors and beauty, with rejoicing and tears of joy, with dancing and
feasting–all these for the unconditional love of the brides and grooms I have known
for years and years. I had to fly miles and miles just to be a part of these
important days of their lives. And I am so glad to have made it. Each wedding
told me a different story–the beauty of waiting; of grace and miracle; perfection
in imperfection–what the Maker had planned long to knit every couple together no
one could tear them apart. Blessings on your new journey as husbands and wives.
Monday, July 30, 2018
Beautiful Weirdness
Do they really think
they can predict what is on my mind? I am so grateful that the Father above is
not transcendent. But your state of grace creeps me out–it grieves my heart
rather. Undeniably, we do have different orientations or statuses in life because we
clashed the way we understood things. OK, I’ll buy it this time. So call me weird
for trying to be praxis or doing things out of the ordinary–not in the way you
thought they would be, but we call it goodness or kindness or mercy where I
come from. Please remind me because I can no longer recall how many individuals whom
I didn’t know personally and yet had messaged me, called me, and even met me
in person for favors big and small. They were never strangers–not even weird
individuals–because they were God’s sent that I might grasp the meaning of
serving, giving, blessing and honoring my Master through this encounter. It was
all God’s grace.
Unspoken Words
For the past few weeks,
my own words have been confined deep within me, unspoken–wondering what went
wrong–driven by things unknown. Now I understand the reasons why. They were
meant to be suppressed temporarily. I had to keep them even if it was against
my will. I had to do it in a peaceful way or else things could have been the
irony. As if the effort to utter spoken words right then could help. Silence
for many instances–like this time–it truly matters. Never mind how many times
it would occur, just learn the art of it once in a while.
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